NICE GUYS FINISH LAST BECAUSE THEY PUT THEIR LADIES FIRST.
This could not be more true. Just because you are losing a certain girl to a less than stellar man, does not mean that you are not amazing.
My mum has always told me to date a nerd. She has always said, "Date the nerd. He never got the girl, so you can be certain that he will treat you like a queen, and do everything in his power to keep you, and keep you happy."
To some, this may sound rude, as though dating the nerd in such a capacity is just using them. However, that is simply not the case. The same thing goes for nice guys. They know how to treat a lady. That is the type of guy who comes out on top in the end, though the road may be a bit bumpier.
Be nice. Make it the new norm to be nice to women, instead of the rudeness and cockiness that we experience in this day and age.
Guys already do this anyway and get stomped on. This isn't advice that is good for men. It's advice that is good for you.
ReplyDeleteDave is correct.
DeleteI concur. Women will walk all over the nice guy, real women need to be challenged at times, and super passive and agreeable gets boring.
ReplyDeleteThis rule requires a man walks through a fine line. On the one hand it goes without saying that you have to be nice first. Now, you're nice,not necessarily because of her, but because that is a Gentleman's standard. At the same time, you must not be taken advantage of by a woman that takes you for granted. So, the rule is "Be Nice" and give her your respect and attention, and continue doing so ONLY if she appreciates you and demonstrates it.
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